Bc he is being a total dick. He is kicking me out bc I am never home. Doent make much sense to me, I am 19. I have talkd to two guys here at work who have kids my age and they think it is stupid. My dads mom is even mad at him and said I can stay with her if I want. She says with as much trouble he gave her when he was my age I never put him through anything bc I dont do drugs, I dont smoke, I havent been arrested, dont have any kids. She says I am a good kid and I dont deserve it.

Don't feel bad, my pops will get like that if I'm constantly out. But he's old school to the max, and that's just how it is. Remember, you are living in his house.

Fortunatly not for long. I dont wanna be at war with him, he just likes to be super controlling and what not and I need to learn to be myself and get out from under his thumb

Fortunatly not for long. I dont wanna be at war with him, he just likes to be super controlling and what not and I need to learn to be myself and get out from under his thumb

Fighting with family doesn't lead to anything good.

Yeah I know, thats why I think moving out will be the best solution bc then he wont have to be pissed that I am not home ot do anything and I wont feel controlled. He is just weird about me. My bro is lazy as dog shit, 17 yrs old, my grandma gave him her 02 GA SE for free, he still doesnt have his license, he smokes and my dad has caught him many times and says he will drug test him and he is grounded until he is clean, but he never has, and he doesnt make my brother do hardly anything but dishes, and he goes out with his GF all the time. I have been the one who cleans the house and helps him do all sorts of work, and now that I have a full time job, school, and I wanna see my GF he gets pissed at me.

Sounds good Pete!

Don't wanna be rude but Chris and Jordan can we take the Off Topic conversation somewhere else, you can make a thread in the Off Topic and I can move all this to it, if you want I know how hard it is to deal with parents believe me. When I turned 18 my parents said Happy Birthday! You have 2 weeks to find where your living for college in Tampa. Luckily they've changed so much since my sister and I have been gone and realized they're bored without us Just give your Dad time and hopefully he'll realize he doesn't want you out.

Ok Ringo you can move it here so we can clean Petes thread.

Keep things tidy and clean will help all discussions go better, so carry on with your discussion and sorry to hear about this man!

Holy shiit ALL this waz on mai threadz???? JK

Wow man sorry to hear about your situation but with Jim.... ALL parents (including YOURSELF one day) are like this at some point or another... maybe he has higher hopes for you than your bro, maybe he feel that YOU are the best son and he just has higher standards for YOU because he doesn't want you to screw up like your lil bro is... either way once you move out he'll realize what he doesn't have anymore and he'll want it back...

Holy shiit ALL this waz on mai threadz???? JK

Wow man sorry to hear about your situation but with Jim.... ALL parents (including YOURSELF one day) are like this at some point or another... maybe he has higher hopes for you than your bro, maybe he feel that YOU are the best son and he just has higher standards for YOU because he doesn't want you to screw up like your lil bro is... either way once you move out he'll realize what he doesn't have anymore and he'll want it back...

i hope it all works out for you i have had the same here as everyone knows i em 17 and have a kid and got kicked out i just hope it works out better for you than it did me

Sucks to hear about your problems man hopefully everything works out for you