Resolved.... sort of:)
Somewhere between the underhood and ip fuse blocks there is a bad connection.... I cut open a fuse and soldered a piece of wire to it and used it as a spade connector running from the IP Stop/Hzd direct to the battery and poof I have stop (all 3) and sigs again! so either a corroded underhood or IP block or broken wire! now if my radio would only light up:)
later and thanks for your replies